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Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Quality of Life - EVERYONE Deserves It!
I am
still so completely puzzled as to why all of a sudden with no warning,
all of this nightmare comes down on patients? Of course we have known
about Florida and all of the "fake clinics", "fake pharmacies... and
even the issue with WG I guess being fined for not watching more closely
about medications and who is getting them. But that STILL does NOT
explain WHY long-term, contract following, knowing
the medical records and health records well, having all the proof in
the world that a patient is definitely "in horrid chronic pain"..
doctors would be under so much pressure they absolutely STOP even
talking to their patients. Honestly, this makes things WORSE not better
at all! MOST patients if sat down and explained to that a doctor must
stop seeing them for the pain issues, but they will continue their meds
for a month, or help them at least step down a little on the meds until
they can get a physician, and tell people WHY in the heck it is
happening, you will get MORE FLIES with HONEY than with VINEGAR!! You
are talking about PEOPLE'S VERY CORE LIVES HERE!!! People in communities
that know everyone, and everyone seems to know everyone else's
business. And if you destroy their "reputation" by making it appear this
person is some kind of pusher etc... how do you expect that family,
that person to walk into their local stores? How are they supposed to
"work" and help make a living, if the pain is so bad they cannot? Who is
going to pay the bills? Who is going to be a "care taker" of someone
they have at home with many severe chronic health issues? PAIN often is
SILENT as far a just "seeing" a person out in public. Pain patients DO
NOT GO OUT when the pain is TOO BAD!!! THEY STAY BEHIND CLOSED DOORS
TRYING TO COPE! ONLY when a person "feels better", is having a "good
day" and the Illness (not just pain BUT OTHER SYMPTOMS WITH ALONG WITH
IT) are not as "obvious"... which makes things worse. If you "do not
look" ill, people assume you are "well'...I ask what does a chronically
ill patient supposed to "look like" in public??? Of course we have good
days, with less symptoms, and we cherish those days. We CAN possibly
make it to buy a few groceries, or pick up our medications. We can walk
around our yards, enjoying outside, we can go see a friend, or go out to
eat... but those days are rare and precious! So, think about when you
see someone you KNOW i chronically ill... I bet there are times YOU DO
NOT see them for days, weeks, even months.... IT is just not pain, it is
severe fatigue, severe stomach problems, severe headaches, brain fog,
fevers, not being able to be around "sick" people. other medications
that may make you feel lousy, hundreds of other issues besides "pain"
that keeps us "hidden" until we have a "feel somewhat human" day
again... The days that you go you do not even feel like taking a
shower.. the thought of just even putting your legs in just wears you
out, the days that you are on the verge of wanting to scream, sit in the
floor and cry, you beg God or anyone to help you, the double vision,
the scars from many surgeries, you can't be in the sun, you can't run,
you can't do things "normal" people do, you do not feel like putting
makeup on, or fixing your hair, or even seeing anyone. Your pale, your
unable to think, you can't even find words to describe what you are
trying to say, you drop things constantly, you can't remember where you
parked, or what your pin number is, or what stores's debit system works
which way. You have to make a list, to remind you of your lists of
lists, you have sticky notes all over the house to "remind" you of
everything. You battle all of the many demons of going to doctors,
taking a handful of pills (not pain but others) daily just to make sure
you don't get thrush, an infection, that your heart works right, that
your anxiety does not get the best of you, that your muscles do not
spasm so bad you can stand it, that the joints that are "not" replaced
yet try and work right... ALL things "chronically ill" deal with. Then
you have those with kidney failure, lung issues, heart issues, and if
you have had a HEART ATTACK then dealing with TOO MUCH PAIN for TOO LONG
can bring on ANOTHER MI! I was speaking with my Mom the other day, and
she talked about an article she read where a woman had been in so much
pain, for so long, and she was just not able to get anyone to help her,
that she jumped off a building. EVERYONE has their own "breaking
point"... Some have strong thresholds, other their thresholds for pain,
anxiety, and stress are much lower... and when you put a person that is
trying their best to deal with chronic illness and do the "right thing"
in order to have some type of quality of life, and you JERK AWAY the
very thing that gives them QUALITY OF LIFE, what do you think they are
going to do? There is going to be an epidemic of other health issues,
the stress and strain on chronically ill patients bodies is already over
the top. Then you bring in more stressors of life, like not being able
to get their proper meds, and that is enough to make them now want to
deal with it anymore... it is harsh, but it is the truth... as I said
everyone has their BREAKING POINT... So, this "battle" is not just about
medications for pain, it is about the very core of giving quality of
life to everyone.. And taking away something people honestly need to get
that much needed quality is just unfathomable at the very least...
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